Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself.
If you don’t define yourself for yourself, then you will be crushed into others’ fantasies of you and eaten alive.
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Audre Lorde (via exvin)
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I’m lonely. And I’m lonely in some horribly deep way and for a flash of an instant, I can see just how lonely, and how deep this feeling runs. And it scares the shit out of me to be this lonely because it seems catastrophic.
We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark; the real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.